Transform your sexual health and reclaim confidence in your relationships
I help men navigate sexual health challenges with empathy, expertise, and a bit of humor so they can unlock their full potential a satisfying sex life
meet dr. mike
So why is it still a challenge to talk about sex and get the help you need?
You need a space where you can be direct and honest without feeling judged.
Your sexual health and relationships
You’re Ready to Take Control of
You feel like you’re handling this alone, unsure where to turn.
Traditional advice or therapy hasn’t cut it, leaving you frustrated and stuck.
Conflicting messages about sex have you feeling confused.
Talking about
sex is difficult
As a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, I’ve worked with countless men who face similar struggles. I know how daunting it can be to address these issues head-on. But together, we can turn discomfort into confidence and uncertainty into strength.
Perhaps you’re like Roger, who can’t seem to find ways to connect with his wife. Through our coaching sessions they uncovered what was blocking them and ended a twelve year drought in their marital bed.
Or maybe you’re like my client, Chris, who worries about his porn use. After our coaching program, Chris realized that porn use doesn’t have to be accompanied by guilt or shame.
Or you might be like one of the many men who find out what I do and have a million questions they’ve never been able to ask.
But it doesn’t have to be.
I Get It
Whatever your sexual health concerns are, talking about them should be easier, and solving them is absolutely possible.
He was able to help coach me through the constant issue of getting in my head during sex and helped me learn new ways to connect to my body, while enjoying myself. For the first time in my life, I actually can say I really enjoy having sex with my wife.
- D. P
Mike is amazing at
what he does
Testimonials
I never thought I would ever talk to someone about sex, but he made it really easy to through these issues. It was great to find someone who really focused on men’s sexual issues because I tried to bring it up with other therapists and always felt weird. If you are going through a difficult time, you def want to talk to Dr. Stokes.
- M. C
I started to see Dr. Stokes back in 2023 for issues I was really embarrassed about.
We were seriously considering divorce until we started to see the possibilities of making our marriage work. I never thought my husband would engage in marriage counseling, but he actually said he likes going. I almost passed out when I heard that! If you have a husband who hates therapy, call Dr. Mike.
- P. S
Dr. Mike helped us through a really difficult time in our life.
About Me
I’m Dr. Michael Stokes, but you can call me Dr. Mike. With over a decade of experience, I specialize in men’s sexual health and intimacy. I built my practice with one goal: to provide a compassionate, non-judgmental space where men can openly discuss their sexual concerns.
As a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Certified Sex Therapist, I combine expert knowledge with a down-to-earth approach. I believe in humor, honesty, and collaboration to make even the most sensitive conversations approachable.
Like many men, I grew up without clear, sex-positive role models. My journey into men’s sexual health started when I noticed how often people felt uncomfortable discussing sex in therapy. I decided to change that.
From Silence to Strength:
Redefining men’s sexual wellness
Connection: I created this space to provide real solutions and a place to talk openly, without shame.
Realization: I understand that sexual health is not just about physical wellness—it’s about emotional and relational well-being too.
Struggle: I saw men struggle in silence, feeling ashamed or unsure about their sexual health.
This is why my approach is different. With my targeted, custom coaching programs we solve your sex concerns faster than traditional therapy. I took my background in therapy and added in the tools and expertise men need.
Turning Point: Realizing how many men felt isolated, I committed myself to helping them find their voice.
New Direction: After years of clinical experience, I pursued specialized certifications to better serve men in this space.
Education
I’ve helped hundreds of men confront and overcome their sexual health challenges. When you work with me, you can expect tailored strategies that lead to real, sustainable change in your intimate life and overall well-being.
Now, the resume bit
EdD Professional Counselor and Supervision
Bachelors of Arts in Psychology with a
specialization in mental health
Masters in Community Counseling
Licensure &
Certifications
AASECT Certified Sex Therapist
Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Rhode Island, New York, Massachusetts, and Florida
Approved Clinical Supervisor (ACS)
Licensed Professional Counselor in Connecticut
How I can help you
I offer a variety of services designed to help you take control of your sexual health and well-being. Whether you’re seeking to improve intimacy in your relationship, overcome personal challenges, or redefine your relationship with pornography, I’m here to guide you with a sex-positive, practical approach tailored to your needs.
Here’s how I can help:
Personalized Coaching: My programs focus on your unique sexual health concerns. We’ll work together to identify barriers, embrace vulnerability, and create strategies that allow you to experience more joy and confidence in your intimate life.
My goal is to provide you with the tools, guidance, and support to embrace a healthier, more satisfying sexual life. Together, we’ll work toward breaking down barriers and building the confidence you need to thrive.
Speaking Engagements: I’m passionate about educating and empowering audiences on topics of sexual health and wellness. Whether it’s corporate events, conferences, or workshops, I deliver engaging presentations that motivate and inspire, blending humor, expert knowledge, and relatable insights.
Porn Addiction Reboot Course: This revolutionary online course takes a sex-positive approach to understanding and managing pornography use. Instead of focusing on shame, we explore how porn can fit into a healthy sex life. You’ll learn to debunk myths, develop healthy practices, and gain clarity about your relationship with pornography.
In addition to my work as a men’s sexual health expert, I’ve built and sold a large group therapy practice. When I’m not working I enjoy traveling, and spending time with family. I’m usually accompanied by a cup of coffee.
