Sex-positive, pleasure-focused
sexual health education for men who want more

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Sex-positive, pleasure-focused sexual health education for men who want more

Welcome to your pathway towards sexual health, wellness, and empowerment. Explore my personalized coaching programs, learn about my public speaking engagements, and discover my unique, sex-positive approach to porn "addiction" recovery. Choose your own adventure by selecting the service that best aligns with your personal journey.

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Men’s Sexual Health
Elite Coaching Programs

Empower your sexual health and intimacy

I offer personalized coaching that focuses on men's sexual health, intimacy, and overall well-being. With expertise in sexual health and sex therapy, I help you navigate the complexities of intimate relationships and sexual desires. Whether you are looking to enhance your relationship, overcome barriers to intimacy, or simply wish to foster a healthier sex life, my coaching programs provide:

Individualized sessions focused on your unique sexual health concerns.

A safe space to explore your feelings, desires, and challenges.

Strategies to be present and joyful in your intimate encounters.

Learn more about my coaching programs and how to start your personalized journey.

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A Sex-Positive Approach to redefining your relationship with pornography online course

You’ve probably heard all the courses and programs out there that promise to “cure” you of your desire to watch porn. But, what if your sexual desires aren’t a problem? What if you can have a healthy relationship with sex, with your own sexuality, with your partner, and yes, even with porn?

I help you explore your relationship with pornography in a way that respects personal choice and promotes healthy sexual practices.

My pioneering course challenges traditional notions of porn “addiction” by adopting a sex-positive framework that promotes understanding rather than shame.

Porn “Addiction” Reboot:

Myth Debunking: Uncover the truths behind common misconceptions about porn use.

Discover how my revolutionary approach to porn “addiction” can lead to healthier perspectives and practices.

Shame-Free Environment: Discuss and address your concerns without judgment or stigma.

Healthy Practices: Learn strategies to determine how pornography fits into your life.

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I am not only a therapist but also a speaker with presentations that inspire and motivate. 

Showcase men’s sexual health at your next event

Workshops: Interactive sessions that foster learning and discussion among participants.

To find ways to communicate your needs to your partner, and truly understand their needs as well.

Conferences: Dive deep into the subjects of sexual health and intimacy with expert insights.

I invite you to explore my speaking engagements and how I can light up your next event.

Corporate Events: Enhance the well-being of your workforce with topics tailored to workplace wellness.

My public speaking engagements cover various aspects of sexual health, wellness, and personal empowerment. With a blend of humor, expert knowledge, and relatable anecdotes, I deliver informative and engaging speeches.

I created this practice to offer a different approach to men’s sexual wellness. I bring a wealth of knowledge, empathy, and credibility. With a deep understanding of the challenges men face regarding sexual health, I offer a compassionate approach that respects the complexities of your personal journey. Here, your well-being and confidentiality are prioritized, ensuring that every step you take towards healing and empowerment is supported by expert guidance and understanding.

Begin your transformation today and experience a partnership that is as enriching as it is enlightening. Whether through personal coaching, public speaking, or innovative courses, you are taking a powerful step towards a healthier and more fulfilling life.

Contact me, Dr. Mike, to discuss your needs and how I can assist you on your journey towards sexual health and empowerment. Let’s unlock the full potential of your intimate encounters and embrace a future where your sexuality is celebrated.

Why choose Dr. Mike?

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Empowering your sexual journey with confidence, understanding, and a touch of humor.

dr. michael stokes

Licensed Mental Health Counselor & Certified Sex Therapist

He was able to help coach me through the constant issue of getting in my head during sex and helped me learn new ways to connect to my body, while enjoying myself. For the first time in my life, I actually can say I really enjoy having sex with my wife.  




- D. P

Mike is amazing at
what he does

Testimonials

I never thought I would ever talk to someone about sex, but he made it really easy to through these issues. It was great to find someone who really focused on men’s sexual issues because I tried to bring it up with other therapists and always felt weird. If you are going through a difficult time, you def want to talk to Dr. Stokes.

- M. C

I started to see Dr. Stokes back in 2023 for issues I was really embarrassed about.

We were seriously considering divorce until we started to see the possibilities of making our marriage work. I never thought my husband would engage in marriage counseling, but he actually said he likes going. I almost passed out when I heard that! If you have a husband who hates therapy, call Dr. Mike.  

- P. S



- D. P

Dr. Mike helped us through a really difficult time in our life.

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