Autonomous sexuality model to your audience
Dr. Michael Stokes, creator of the Autonomous Sexuality Model and the Mindful Mister Method for increasing sexual pleasure while decreasing sexual anxiety brings his positive sex content to a variety of audiences.
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He was able to help coach me through the constant issue of getting in my head during sex and helped me learn new ways to connect to my body, while enjoying myself. For the first time in my life, I actually can say I really enjoy having sex with my wife.
- D. P
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I never thought I would ever talk to someone about sex, but he made it really easy to through these issues. It was great to find someone who really focused on men’s sexual issues because I tried to bring it up with other therapists and always felt weird. If you are going through a difficult time, you def want to talk to Dr. Stokes.
- M. C
I started to see Dr. Stokes back in 2023 for issues I was really embarrassed about.
We were seriously considering divorce until we started to see the possibilities of making our marriage work. I never thought my husband would engage in marriage counseling, but he actually said he likes going. I almost passed out when I heard that! If you have a husband who hates therapy, call Dr. Mike.
- P. S
Dr. Mike helped us through a really difficult time in our life.
Bring sex-positive
education to your male-identifying audience
Do you run a community health center, men’s clinic, or men’s retreat? The following keynotes and workshops are perfect for your audience if
Your organization works with men of all ages.
You want to put an end to stigmas and insecurities about sex for your audience.
You’re committed to men’s wellness.
I am Dr. Mike, and I am available for dynamic workshops, keynote speeches, and more for small to large audiences.
I provide practical strategies to help men engage more fully with their partnered and solo sexual experiences, emphasizing the importance of communication, understanding desires, and the detrimental impact of societal pressures on sexual performance.
My speech on mindfulness and performance anxiety tackles the pervasive issue of mental barriers that inhibit sexual satisfaction and performance. I use the narrative of my client, Steve, to highlight how constant worries about performance and partner satisfaction can detract from the sexual experience.
I explain how mindfulness techniques can serve as powerful tools to connect more deeply with one’s body and partner, reduce anxiety, and enhance enjoyment. This presentation offers attendees actionable mindfulness practices that promote relaxation and presence, which are essential for overcoming performance anxiety and transforming sexual experiences.
In this presentation, I dive into the foundational aspects of the Autonomous Sexuality Model.
Your sexuality belongs to you alone.
Mindfulness and Performance Anxiety
I present a comprehensive exploration of erectile dysfunction (ED), a common but often misunderstood condition affecting millions of men. This presentation aims to demystify ED by detailing both its psychological and physical causes and discussing a range of effective treatments available.
Erectile Dysfunction
Your values guide your sexual boundaries and proclivities.
You get to define your sexuality on your own terms.
You get to share, or not share, your sexuality with whom you wish.
MEN'S SEX 101
Addressing the complex topics of porn and sex “addiction”, I provide an in-depth look at how compulsive behaviors can emerge from a need to escape and cope with stress. I discuss the psychological underpinnings of addiction and the ways it can manifest in one’s sexual life.
Using insights from my practice, including stories like that of Matt, who used masturbation as a stress reliever, I explore the line between healthy sexual expression and addictive behaviors. I offer guidance on recognizing addictive patterns and strategies for recovery, emphasizing the importance of understanding the role of media in shaping sexual expectations and behaviors.
Porn Addiction and Sex Addiction
Have you ever wondered if adding sex therapist to your credentials would benefit your practice? I demystify sex therapy in this comprehensive presentation, aimed at educating healthcare providers and therapists about its scope and significance.
I will explain the fundamental processes involved in sex therapy, the typical issues it addresses, and its crucial role in mental health care. I aim to clarify common misconceptions and illustrate how sex therapy can be a vital tool for helping individuals and couples enhance their sexual well-being and overall mental health.
What is sex therapy?
Leader in men’s sexual wellness, to teach your audience of clinicians
Don’t get caught off guard when a client brings up sexual topics in therapy! I will guide your audience through creating a non-judgmental, affirming approach to sexual health and wellness.
I will discuss how professionals can foster a supportive environment that promotes healthy sexual attitudes and behaviors. Drawing on over a decade of experience,
I share effective strategies for integrating sex-positive principles into clinical practice, enhancing client trust and therapeutic outcomes.
Sex positive therapy
Mental health for men is different. Societal forces, family pressures, and tries to make sense of it all make navigating mental health challenging for most men. I address the critical issues men face in accessing and receiving mental health care.
My talk highlights the cultural and societal barriers that often prevent men from seeking help. I offer practical advice for mental health professionals on how to better engage with their male clients and create therapeutic approaches that acknowledge and address the unique pressures and expectations placed on men.
Men’s mental health concerns
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Do you run a professional organization of therapists, psychiatrists, and medical professionals? If so, my CEU granting courses are perfect for your organization.
I speak to clinical experts and organizational leaders about the following topics:
I provide crucial training on creating LGBTQIA+ inclusive environments within any organization. My workshop covers practical steps for embracing diversity, from policy-making to daily interactions. Participants will learn about the importance of inclusive language, understanding LGBTQIA+ identities, and strategies to combat discrimination. I use interactive methods to ensure that the training is engaging and impactful, promoting a culture of inclusivity and respect.
Addressing the unique challenges and needs of transgender and non-binary students, I offer essential gender-diversity training tailored for educators and school administrators. My presentation focuses on creating supportive educational environments that respect all students’ gender identities. Through case studies and evidence-based practices, I will guide participants on how to implement inclusive policies and curricula that foster a safe and nurturing school climate.
Available for inclusivity training for schools and organizations
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Gender-Diversity Training for Schools
LGBTQIA+ Inclusive Training for Organizations of All Sizes
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